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What can you do if you are being bullied?
Tell someone! It's not your fault.
- No one deserves to be bullied. It is not your fault.
- Keep yourself safe: Stay close to other kids or adults who will stick up for you. Stay in areas where you feel safe.
- Use your words assertively, they can be disarming: "Stop."
- Walk away. Don't fight back. It could escalate the situation. You could be seen as the instigator, or part of the problem.
- Tell someone- a trusted teacher, a friend, a parent. It IS a big deal. You don't have to face it alone, you aren't alone. Find someone who will listen.
- How can you enlist others to help? Start a school initiative with others, approach the school principal, link with bullying prevention organizations.
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What can you do if you have been bullying others?
You don't have to like everyone, but you do have to respect everyone.
- Bullying is a behavior and behaviors can change. It's never too late. Don't label yourself or others.
- If you've been hurt before, bullying won't help make you feel better. We all deserve to feel safe.
- Talk to an adult. Find other activities that you enjoy and make you feel good about yourself.
- Be brave - apologize to the person you have bullied.
- Different doesn't mean better or worse. Different just means different. We are ALL different.
- Be a true leader - treat everyone with respect.
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STUDENT GUIDES
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TAKE ACTION!
Be a friend
Join a program
Create a program
Be a role model
VolunteerOnline resources:
- Stomp Out Bullying
- Bully Bust: Promoting a Community of Upstanders
- Bystander Revolution: Take the Power Out of Bullying
- Anti-defamation League
- GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network)
- KIDS - stopbullying.gov
- PACER.org - Get Involved
- PACER Center's Kids Against Bullying
- PACER Center's Teens Against Bullying
- It Gets Better Project
- Parents, Family, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (W-S Chapter)
- GirlsHealth.gov: Be Healthy. Be Happy. Be you. Beautiful.
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Get Involved!
“The End of Bullying Begins With You”
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If you need a safe place to talk. If you feel helpless or hopeless, you are not alone. Tell someone.HELP IS HERE NOW.
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What can you do if you see bullying?
Don't just stand there. Most bullying is stopped when a peer intervenes.
- Ask the bully to stop. Sometimes, all it takes is one voice to stop bullying. And sometimes people don't realize their actions are harmful.
- Don't join in. Watching, laughing, spreading stories, or retelling what happened contributes to and can escalate bullying.
- Help the person get away. If you can do so safely, stand with the person or help them move away. If it isn't safe, go call for help.
- Tell an adult. Sometimes it's hard to talk about being bullied, but bullying can be very serious. Help by letting an adult know what's happening.
- Be a friend. Tell them it's not their fault. Let them know you care and that they are not alone. Be company, share your time and space.
- Get others to step in. It's harder to bully a group of people standing in solidarity. There is some safety in numbers.